5 Experiences Most Freshman College Students Face & How to Navigate Them
College is a time of newfound independence, community, and self-discovery. While it’s an exciting season, it can also be overwhelming. As a campus minister, I’ve walked alongside many college freshmen who were once in your shoes. I can confidently say that the Lord has graciously guided many through their college journeys. Below are five common experiences that most college students face when they first enter college.
#1: Struggling to Feel Like You Belong
One of the most common struggles in college is feeling like you belong. Whether it’s in your friend group or social circle, it can be tough to find your place. If you’re a freshman, especially, it’s easy to feel out of place—but don’t worry, everyone else is likely feeling the same way you are. Remember that your ultimate sense of belonging and worth is found in the Lord, and you can find security in that truth. At the same time, don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone. Sometimes, pressing into uncomfortable situations is the best way to build connections. For example, if some friends are heading out to Insomnia Cookies after Bible study, even if it’s late, try joining them. It could be the perfect opportunity to make friends and build long-lasting relationships.
#2: Questioning Your Major or Career Aspirations
It’s normal to question your major or career path, especially during your first year, and even beyond that. As someone who graduated just a few years ago, I can confidently say it doesn’t matter as much what degree you get, as long as you work hard to gain experience that supports your career goals. Many skills are transferable across different jobs, and your first career may not be your forever one and doesn’t have to be your dream job. From a spiritual perspective, trust the Lord as you navigate your academic choices. You’re not just on campus as a student—you’re an ambassador for Christ. The Lord is the one who grants jobs and directs your steps, so don’t worry if you don’t have everything figured out. Just trust that He will lead you in the right direction.
#3: Learning How to Manage Your Own Schedule
This is one of the biggest transitions when starting college. On one hand, you have more freedom with your schedule compared to high school’s 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. routine. On the other hand, your time fills up quickly as you balance academics, social life, faith, and other commitments. It can be difficult to establish a consistent routine that leaves room for everything. The Bible teaches us to be disciplined and hardworking (Proverbs 14:23). It’s about finding the right balance between fun, community, schoolwork, and discipline.
#4: Finding the Balance Between Time with Family and Independence
For many students, college is the first time you’re living away from home, and it can be challenging to navigate the transition. It’s a big change not just for you, but also for your parents. They’re learning to adjust to life without you at home every day, and that can lead to feelings of anxiety or unease—especially if you're the only or oldest child. On your side, the shift to making your own decisions without your parents’ guidance can feel overwhelming. This could lead to tension in your family or a sense of disconnect from campus life if you end up going home every weekend. Remember that as far as it depends on you, live peacefully with everyone (Romans 12:18). Honoring your parents doesn’t mean agreeing with everything they say, but it does mean listening and respecting their perspective.
#5: Feeling Stressed About Exams and Grades
Academic performance is obviously an important part of college life. After all, that’s why you’re here! But the Bible reminds us not to be anxious about anything (Philippians 4:6-7). Instead, in everything, we’re encouraged to pray and bring our concerns to God. Stress about exams and grades is normal, but keep in mind that it comes and goes. Five years from now, no one will remember the grade you got in your classes.
